Thursday, November 24, 2011

Unit 10 Blog!

Hello fellow bloggers!
What a journey we have been on!  There are some areas I think I have grown on, and some, not so much.  Not because I don't want to, but because it is so hard for me to find the time during my busy day to sit down and do everything I want to do; such as meditating.  With that being said, my Unit 3 ratings of myself in the areas of physical, spiritual, and psychological wellbeing were 7, 5-6, and 4, respectively.   I feel my physical wellbeing has gone up to an 8 because I have changed my workout routine and have stuck with it and I have limited the amount of junk food consumed.  My spiritual wellbeing is now between a 6 and 7; going to Bible Study and Church every week has helped me realize just what God can do and wants to do for me.  I am learning to continuously pray for anything that is happening and I need something; such as patience!  My psychological wellbeing is still around a 4; I haven't started journaling or meditating.  In all honesty, I probably won't be able to start doing this until I finish college because between school, chores, and my family, so much is taken out of me.     
My physical goal was to run a 1/2 marathon.  I have not started training for this because I was going to wait until I got to Turkey.  As of now, I am doing the Insanity workout; and it is definitely keeping my physically fit!
My spiritual goal was to continue going to Bible Study and Church every week when I get to Turkey.  I have not gone there yet, but I have kept this goal up where I currently live.
My psychological goal was to start journaling, and as mentioned before, I have not started this yet.  However, as I type this, I realize it would be neat to journal about my experience getting ready to move across seas!
As you can see, I haven't really implemented any activities, just yet, that can move me towards the goals I want, but I have started doing a little something in both the physical and spiritual aspects.
My experience throughout this course has definitely been a wonderful one!  I knew developing these aspects were important, but I didn't realize just how important or how to actually put them into practice.  I feel I have improved slightly, but there is always more work to be done; even though I haven't started practicing as much as I should, I honestly can't wait to really delve into it!  One of the most rewarding things was learning how to relax and to also become patient; these are 2 things I really needed :-).  The hardest thing, as most of you who read my blogs know, is meditating; I just can't find the time to do it yet and that does get a little frustrating.  I hope that whenever my family is feeling down and lost, I hope I can use these practices to make them feel better!!!  In all honesty, this class was a great one for me and I truly can't wait to dig deeper in all these aspects and find integral health! 
-Natasja

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Final Project!!!

I. Introduction:
Why is it important for health and wellness professionals to develop psychologically, spiritually and physically? What areas do you need to develop to achieve the goals you have for yourself?
           I feel, in order to better help a person become psychologically, spiritually, and physically healthy, health and wellness professionals need to work on their own integral health and these three concepts first.  Psychologically wise, the professional should be able to personally know how to promote a well-rounded mental health through different practices and exercises that they have gone through themselves, such as meditation, yoga, and visualizations.  Based on their own experience, they could help develop a unique practice for their patients.  When it comes to spiritual health, a health and wellness professional that has developed their own personal spiritual self will be able to testify about it and therefore help their patient truly understand what it is like and how it is helpful to be spiritually healthy.  Finally, a health and wellness professional should be physically healthy so that their patient can see that their personal doctor is being sincere when it comes to being physically healthy; a healthy body can help create a strong and healthy inner being. With all that being said, I do not think it is necessary that the professional should have had to recover from a particular path a patient is going down in order to help them, but the professional should be able to know what it is like to have integral health so that they can help them get on the right path; they are the proof to the patient that this type of healing can really work.      
           In all honesty, I feel I need to develop each of these areas more in order to achieve the goals I have set for me; getting down to my goal weight, knowing how to reduce my stress, and develop a becoming more spiritual than I am now.  My physical health is the most developed out of all, but developing it more could help me reach my goal of losing ten pounds.  I eat decently and work out regularly; however, I know I could do more.  As of now, I try to eat a well balanced diet; however that does not always happen. I need to lessen the unhealthy fats and increase my fruit and vegetable intake.  In addition to my eating habits, my fitness routine could be revamped in a way that I make sure I can get to the gym at least five days a week; being able to do all this will help my physical development and reach my weight loss goal.   
           My psychological health needs more development in order to reach my goal of knowing how to reduce the amount of stress I have.  Currently, between college, chores, and my husband and daughter, my stress is pretty high.  Going through the Integral Health text by Dacher (2006) and the Consciousness and Healing text by Schlitz, Amorok, and Micozzi (2005), I have gained more knowledge than I thought possible to help me learn how to cope with and lower my stress.  Practicing exercises such as the Loving-Kindness and Subtle Mind exercises are great ways to help me quite my mind and become more aware of myself and those around me and reach the goal of reducing my stress I am aiming for. 
           Although I attend Bible Study and Church regularly, I feel I need to develop my spiritual health more in order to reach my goal of knowing more about God; I have so many questions and besides reading the Bible, I do not know where to find them all.  Developing my spiritual well-being could possibly help me answer the questions I am looking for and may even help my husband and me in raising our daughter.  I believe that the practices I mentioned earlier, Loving-Kindness and Subtle Mind, are not only good practices for reducing my stress, but can possibly open my heart, mind, and soul to God and His teachings.     
II. Assessment:
How have you assessed your health in each domain? How do you score your wellness spiritually, physically, and psychologically?
           Personally, I have never assessed my health in the spiritual, physically, and psychological domains until this class.  Reading through the texts has allowed me to view these in ways I never thought possible.  For example, I thought I would have a higher score in the spiritual domain, but after reading the texts, I truly now know I am not nearly advanced and do not deserve a higher score.  I also feel that each exercise I accomplished in class helped me better assess each domain; even the ones that were extremely tough for me taught me that I need to seriously work on those aspects of my life.
           With that being said, I would rate my spiritual wellbeing, on a scale of 1-10 (10 being optimal wellbeing), at around a 6.  I currently attend church and Bible Study once a week and I participate in a daily devotional.  This is not only helping my spiritual wellbeing, I have also noticed how my patience is increasing ever-so-slightly.  I know if I continue to go to church, Bible Study, use a daily devotional and pray constantly, I will be able to gradually increase my score in this field.
           I would rate my physical wellbeing at around a 7.  There are some aspects I need to work on, such as my eating, but I do try to eat somewhat healthy and be as physically active as possible.  By revamping my eating habits and continuing to be physically active, I will eventually reach my goal weight.
           I would rate my psychological wellbeing at a 4.  This is definitely the biggest domain I need to work on.  Practicing the exercises I have been taught in this class will help me increase my psychological wellbeing and hopefully help me become more aware of myself, those and the issues around me, and possibly life's questions.      
III. Goal development:
List at least one goal you have for yourself in each area, Physical, Psychological (mental health) and Spiritual.
           A goal I have for myself physically is to run a half marathon while in Turkey; another goal is to lose at least 10 more pounds.  I feel my first goal will definitely help me with my second goal.
           One goal I have for my psychological self is to become better at meditating; at least being able to meditate for 30 minutes at least three times a week.  A second goal is to start journaling about my life; I feel journaling is a great way to relieve stress and I will try to do it at least every day if not every other day.
           My biggest goal for my spiritual self is to go through the year long Daily Devotional Bible I have.  This will help me get into God's word everyday and figure out what I need to change in myself in order to obey it.       
IV. Practices for personal health:
What strategies can you implement to foster growth in each of the following domains; Physical, Psychological, and Spiritual. Provide at least two examples of exercises or practices in each domain. Explain how you will implement each example.
           To foster growth for my physical being, there are two exercises or practices I can implement.  First is working out on a regular basis, weight training, running, and flexibility.  Second, I can start a healthy eating practice; limiting the junk food in my house so that it is not tempting and consuming more fruits and vegetables, along with any other healthy snacks.  I will implement my first practice by scheduling a set time and day, depending on my husband's schedule, for my workouts and notify my husband about them so that he can make sure he is home to watch Dakota.  To execute my second practice, I will start buying only healthy snack options and maybe have one or two junk food items in the house; I will also try to meditate on how I do not need to have the junk food. 
           To grow my psychological being, two exercises I can put into practice are journaling and meditating; both of these will also help me reach my goals for my psychological self.  To implement journaling, I will buy a journal I really like; I will then set a time everyday to journal my thoughts, feelings, or the happenings of that day.  To apply my second practice, I will start meditating, such as doing a relaxation exercise or the Loving-Kindness exercise, on a more regular basis; at least four to five times a week.  I will have to start of slow and gradually build it up and I will have to make sure I do it at a time when Dakota is asleep.
           To grow my spiritual being, two practices I can put into action are continuing to go to the Women's Bible Study and church, even when I am in Turkey, and, secondly, to pray on and actually obey everything the Bible is teaching me; such as being more respectful to my husband.  For my first practice, I will have to actively search for the Bible Study I will attend so that I can receive God's Word around my fellow sisters in Christ.  For my second practice, I will have to pray every day, night, and whenever something happens and I need guidance.       
V. Commitment:
How will you assess your progress or lack of progress in the next six months? What strategies can you use to assist in maintaining your long-term practices for health and wellness?
           The first thing I need to do in order to assess my progress in any of these domains is to write down where I am right now; that way, when six months rolls around, I can see how far I have come.  I also feel assessing myself every so often after six months will allow me to maintain my practices and exercises. 
           A second strategy I feel can help me maintain my progress is to continually change it up so that I do not become bored with it and just quit; such as going back in forth between hard weight lifting and running, changing my meditation practices from mindful practices to maybe yoga, and to do different Bible studies throughout the year.  Change is not always good, but in this case, at least for me, it is. 
           A third strategy is to find someone who can hold me accountable and tell me when I am not doing something and to praise me when I am.  Having words of affirmation is definitely a way to make me want to continue what I am doing. 

Wednesday, November 9, 2011

2 Practices I Enjoyed!--Unit 8 Blog

Hello fellow bloggers!
This week we had to choose two past exercises and/or practice sessions that we found to be the most beneficial to ourselves.  This was a little difficult because there were some great ones; however, there were some that I seemed to relate to more than I did to others.  The one that seemed the most beneficial to me because it helped me relax so well was the "Journey On" exercise we completed in Unit 2.  I remember (in fact I think I am going to listen to it now!) how relaxed it made me.  I could definitely experience everything the narrator instructed and I remember just feeling so great when I finally opened my eyes to begin the day.  Practicing this several days a week can help me foster a better "mental fitness" because I would be practicing on training and stilling my mind.  I also feel it would help me become more relaxed and less stressed at the small things in life.   
The second exercise I found beneficial, even though it was a little difficult for me, was the loving-kindness practice.   I remember having this warm feeling in my heart as I imagined my daughter; however, I also remember how hard it was for me to concentrate as the exercise continued on.  I feel this practice could help me become more patient and loving-kind to not only my loved ones, strangers, and even enemies whenever they should come about (hopefully I will never have any!), but also to myself. 
I know practice does not always make perfect, but it can definitely help me become more relaxed and aware of how I am treating not only myself, but those around me as well.  I am trying to come up with a "fool-proof" plan on how to practice these since I can't do it while my daughter is awake.  I currently get up at 4:30am to do my homework; maybe I could wake up a little earlier so I can do the practices before I begin my day?  However, I might end up falling asleep and then I won't be able to do any homework at all.  If anyone has any ideas, I am definitely open to hearing them! 
Y'all have a great and relaxing week!
-Natasja

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

Meeting Asciepius...

Hello everyone!
This week we were asked to picture someone who we saw as wise and deeply respected; I visualized my women's Bible study mentor, Bobbie.  She is one of the wisest people I have ever met and she exemplifies the meaning of loving-kindness.  During the beginning, when I first started picturing her, I had this wonderful sense of calm and I could tell I had a little smile on my face; I felt warm and at peace.  As the track went on, I started to lose focus.  I think I found out what my problem is with these practices; they last too long for me and I start to lose focus and then I can't concentrate on them anymore.  I'm always fine at the beginning and then I lose it.  I really need to work on it! 
I feel these practices are opening my eyes a lot more about meditating and how practicing will help all the aspects of my being.  I will become calmer, less stressed, caring, and so on.  I know I need to practice a lot more, and I definitely plan on doing this; I just need to find a set time each day to do it.  I am starting to think at night, right before bed, will be the best since my daughter will already be asleep :-)
"Once cannot lead another where one has not gone himself" is definitely a phrase every health and wellness professional should take into consideration (Schlitz, Amorok, & Micozzi, 2005, p. 477).  In order to show a person how to become healthy, one must do it their self first; like the old saying goes "actions speak louder than words."  In order to show my daughter the correct way of doing things, I will have to do it correctly as well; I can't expect her or my husband to do something the right way (or at least my way) without doing it myself.  If I stop being a SAHM and obtain a health and wellness profession, I feel I do have an obligation to develop all aspects of my being so that I can better assist others in obtaining theirs; I want to be an example for all those who come through my door.  By implementing everything I've learned so far (not just meditating on it, but actually putting it to physical practice), I feel my psychological and spiritual personal life will grow!
-Natasja     
Reference:
Schlitz, M., Amorok, T., & Micozzi, M. S. (2005). Consciousness & healing: integral approaches to mind-body medicine. Elsevier: Churchill

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Universal Loving Kindness and Emotional Self

Hello Everyone!
Well, the first exercise I practiced was the Universal Loving Kindness meditation exercise.  This one was a little difficult because we had to memorize those four lines then meditate on them; however, I was able to do it!  After I went over them for a little bit, I lied down, closed my eyes, and began.  At first, I was wishing this for all people, but then my mind started going to this one lady, Rachel, and I put her name in place of "all individuals."  I have no idea who Rachel is, but in my Bible Study group someone wrote down a prayer request for her.  She just had twins and while she was pregnant she found out she has colon cancer and only has about 12 months to live; meditating on it and thinking about it right now is bringing tears to my eyes.  I really want her self-suffering to go away and her find health, happiness, and wholeness; I want her cancer to go away so she can see her daughters grow up.  Her husband had been previously married, and he lost his first wife to a car accident and had two sons with her; now he is facing the loss of his second wife and has two twin daughters with her.  I ask y'all please pray for this family.
I feel, right now, the aspect in my life I need and want to work on is the emotional part of the psychospiritual side.  I know I am a female and we are known to have mood swings, but I tend to get them a lot; especially towards my husband when he doesn't deserve it.  I will sometimes get angry with him and try to make him feel guilty; I know when I do this and I don't like it, yet it is hard for me to stop.  I meditated on this for a while (while listening to some mediation music to help clear my mind) and I came to the realization that I need to control my emotions and not let them control me.  My husband loves me and he doesn't intentionally upset me as I do to him at times. 
Well....some activities I can do to help foster growth in both these areas is to continue to meditate on them.  I still need to learn how to better clear my mind and only focus on what I am meditating on, but with time, I should be able to do it!!!
Y'all have a relaxing day :-)
-Natasja        

Saturday, October 22, 2011

Subtle Mind Practice

Hello everyone!
The Subtle Mind exercise was intense.  Like the loving-kindness exercise, I had a hard time with this one also; the Loving-Kindness practice was difficult because I was not able to picture and feel what the narrator was telling me to and Subtle Mind I was not able to get to a point of having no thoughts.  I feel like I am doing something wrong with both of these practices.  I know I will not pick it up the first time I try it; but I want to!  During the beginning of the Subtle Mind practice, there were a couple of times where I didn't have any thoughts come up, but then I would think about the fact that I'm not having any thoughts, and then thoughts would arise.  It was a vicious little cycle.  Unfortunately, I was never able to come to calm-abiding.  I am positive that with practice, I will be able to get both the Loving-Kindness and Subtle Mind practices down; it may take a while, but I am willing to practice it as much as possible.  I will probably start off slow, like 5 minutes a day, and then gradually build the time up for each.  I WILL GET THIS!
I think developing a spiritual awareness will allow one's mental and physical health to increase; it will allow a person to have holistic and integral health because all sides, mental, physical and spiritual, are being covered.  I am very religious, so why does it seem that I am having a hard time finding my spiritual self?  I am slowly learning that these two things are very different.  I am also starting to realize that this connection, spiritual wellness connecting to mental and physical wellness, is important in order to have a holistic filled life!  However, I am not yet sure how it is manifested in my life just yet; through practice, I am hoping to find out. :-D
-Natasja 

Friday, October 14, 2011

Loving-Kindness and Mental Workouts

Hello everyone!
I don't know about y'all, but I did not receive a CD for the Dacher text; however there was a little mp3 in doc sharing that was about loving-kindness and so I listened to that.  It was actually the same thing I (and y'all) read this week in the Dacher text, but this time I was able to lie down, close my eyes, and imagine everything the narrator was saying.  It started off pretty nicely, imagining someone close to me whom I love dearly; I happened to think about my daughter.  I know, I know, I should have thought about my husband, but for some reason, my daughter just kept popping up in my head, and I couldn't stop thinking about her (she's impossible not to love!).  During that part I was able to concentrate and I did feel this warm feeling in my heart and then I was able to concentrate on a loved one who is suffering; however, as the session progressed, I kept finding it harder and harder to concentrate and my mind just kept wandering aimlessly. 
I loved the warm feeling I received in my heart as I was thinking about my daughter and the one that is suffering; I even got a little teary eyed!  It felt really good.  So, then, why was it so hard to picture loving my enemies or those I don't really talk to due to our past history???  Who knows...I think I just need more practice! 
So, would I recommend this to others?  Sure!  Why?  Because everyone should learn how to open their heart and love a little more.  We all need to practice loving, caring, and showing genuine kindness to all those around us :-)
This brings me to the topic of "Mental Workouts."  Just like our body needs a workout; our minds do as well!  Having a daily mental workout can lead to a more developed mind and in turn, can create what we have all been reading about, "human flourishing--health, happiness, and wholeness" (Dacher, 2006, p. 62).  Research has actually shown that mental workouts can reduce negative thoughts such as "anger, hatred, fear, worry, confusion, and doubt;" tell me, who wants those thoughts?  Not me!  So I think I should do some mental workout so I can get the positive thoughts that have been shown through research such as "patience, openness, acceptance, and happiness" and as I talked about 2 seconds ago, "loving-kindness!" 
One mental workout I could throw in my daily life would be to meditate while counting back from 100; once I get good at that, maybe skipping every few numbers and just doing the even or odd numbers.  I wonder if meditating and just thinking positive thoughts would help?  Either way, just like I take my physical body to the gym, I need to take my brain to the mental "gym!"
Y'all have a wonderful and relaxing day!
-Natasja
Reference:
Dacher, E. S. (2006). Integral health: the path to human flourishing. Basic Health Publications: California